From repeating your past to consciously choosing your future.
A structured process grounded in both science and energy that works with the unconscious mind — the system that created your patterns — to release and transform them so you can consciously choose how to live your life.
Melody Di Bona, PhD
There can be a point where nothing outside looks “wrong,” but inside you feel completely worn down.
Like you’re going through life on autopilot — repeating the same emotional cycles, the same relationship patterns, the same inner reactions you thought you would have outgrown by now. Sometimes you feel like another version of you, that you don’t like, is driving your life, and you are powerlessly living this other persona’s choices and reactions. You feel you lost agency over your own life.
No matter how much you want to change, nothing moves. That’s when you start feeling resigned.
Maybe this is just how it is for me.
Maybe I’m always going to end up here again.
Maybe this is just who I am and I have to accept it.
You might find yourself pushing through days while feeling disconnected from any real sense of joy or direction. Overgiving, overthinking, shutting down, thinking you are finally over it until you inexorably end up back there again.
And underneath it all, your own internal judge keeps beating you up:
“Why do you keep doing this?”
“What is wrong with me?”
“You should be past this by now.”
“See? In the end you always screw things up. Silly you to delude yourself otherwise”
“You should be punished, not loved. Look at the mess you did”
I know this place — not just through my work, but personally.
And I want you to know something clearly:
This is not who you are.
And it is not permanent.
Where real change occurs.
I don’t work by managing symptoms or surface behaviours.
I work with the patterns underneath — the automatic emotional and behavioural cycles that keep repeating in your life, even when you understand them logically.
These patterns are often built over time by your beliefs, by what you tell your unconscious mind and as ways of coping, adapting, or staying safe. But at some point, they start to limit you instead of protecting you.
In our work, we bring them into awareness and work with them directly — so they can be released and replaced with new internal responses that feel more aligned with who you want to be.
This is where change becomes real: when you are no longer reacting from old patterns, but beginning to respond from choice.
You stop abandoning yourself—your true self.
This is not about becoming someone else.
It is about coming back to yourself. It is time to stop dimming your light and actually start to shine. It is time to fully occupy your space and to consciously, unapologetically choose how to live your life.
And this, my dear friend, is real freedom.
You may have spent years trying to "fix" yourself.
Reading books. Going to therapy. Understanding your patterns.
Yet somehow, you keep ending up in the same place.
Perhaps you:
keep emotionally eating even though you know it isn't really about food
become anxious or lose yourself in relationships
feel exhausted, burnt out, or disconnected from who you really are
know you're capable of more, yet something keeps holding you back
understand your patterns intellectually, but nothing seems to change
Most of my clients are intelligent, deeply caring people who have become experts at adapting to everyone else's needs—but have gradually lost connection with themselves.
What they all share It’s a readiness to finally change what is underneath the pattern, not just manage the surface symptoms.
If this is you….
Who I help best
My personal journey, combined with my training and experience, allows me to deeply understand and support people who are facing:
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You may eat because you're physically hungry, but then find yourself unable to stop. Or perhaps you reach for food in moments of stress, loneliness, boredom, or overwhelm—looking for comfort, relief, or a way to quiet difficult emotions. Afterwards come guilt, frustration, and the feeling that you should have more control. Which keeps you stuck in the same pattern. I understand this cycle deeply, having struggled with bulimia for nearly 10 years myself. Emotional eating is rarely about food itself; it is an unconscious pattern where your brain and nervous system have learned to use eating as a way to regulate your nervous system and emotions. Together, we'll uncover the triggers behind the behaviour and help you build healthier, lasting ways to respond.
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You may feel like your relationship becomes your whole world. When things are going well, you feel on top of the world. But the moment your partner becomes distant—or simply seems different—you feel anxious, devastated, and unable to think about anything else. You may be terrified that expressing what you truly need will push them away, so instead you hint, hope, overgive, or chase, hoping they will simply know what you need. Yet these very patterns often create the distance you fear most. These behaviours are strategies your unconscious mind learned to seek love, safety, and belonging. Having struggled with these patterns myself, I know how painful and confusing they can be. Together, we'll uncover the beliefs and emotional wounds driving them, helping you build healthier relationships based on self-worth, clear communication, and genuine connection.
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You may find yourself working endlessly to prove your worth, achieve more, and meet expectations...only to end up exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from yourself. Your body sends signals: constant tiredness, irritability, emotional breakdowns, difficulty sleeping, muscle tension. And when your productivity inevitably drops, it can feel like you have lost the very thing that made you valuable.
Burnout is not only because of stress or having too much to do. It is often a deeper disconnection from your identity and your values. Over time, you may become so focused on performing that you lose sight of who you are beyond your accomplishments.
These struggles are often connected to beliefs about worth, success, and the need to keep pushing, but also to the way your nervous system has adapted. Some people develop a reliance on high activation states (urgency, pressure, and constant doing) because they temporarily create energy and a sense of control. When these underlying drivers are addressed and the nervous system becomes better regulated, you can regain cognitive capacity, creativity, focus, and sustainable productivity.
I know this journey personally. For years, I measured my value through achievement and struggled to slow down without feeling guilty. Learning to reconnect with myself did not make me less ambitious: it allowed me to become more productive while also feeling happier and more fulfilled. Together, we'll uncover the beliefs and mechanisms keeping you trapped in this cycle, reconnect you with your identity and values, and help you build a fulfilling life while increasing your energy, focus, and productivity from a healthier place.
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You find yourself wanting (or needing even) financial freedom, yet feeling uncomfortable with the idea of earning more, charging for your work, or allowing yourself to receive. Perhaps you have learned beliefs such as money being selfish, that wanting wealth means you are less caring, or that having more means someone else has less. Some people unconsciously reject money because they associate having more with becoming less kind, less worthy, or less loved. You may even feel that struggle and sacrifice make you more worthy of love and acceptance.
These beliefs can influence the choices you make, the opportunities you pursue, and the value you allow yourself to receive. Money itself is simply a tool: it is not good or bad. The impact it creates depends on the intention and values of the person using it.
I know this journey personally. I had to question beliefs I carried about money, worthiness, and what it meant to be a good person. Learning to separate my value from my financial circumstances allowed me to build a healthier relationship with money: one based on choice, purpose, and self-worth.
Together, we'll uncover and release the beliefs blocking the flow of money, transform your relationship with it, and help you create a sense of abundance that is aligned with your values and the life you want to build.
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You have spent years becoming who you were expected to be-successful, responsible, composed, and always capable, while losing connection with who you truly are. Perhaps you learned to adapt to others, keep everyone comfortable, read the room before anyone else speaks, and put your own needs aside to avoid disappointing people.
Over time, you found yourself disconnected from your desires, creativity, and joy, unsure of what you truly want beyond what you achieve or what others need from you.
I know this journey personally. For years, I chased achievement to prove my worth and rewrite the story I had been given about myself. At the same time, I spent years trying to be the person everyone needed me to be, keeping others happy, taking responsibility for their emotions and avoiding conflict. And I lost touch with the parts of myself that made me feel alive. Learning to release these patterns, integrate the parts of myself I had hidden, and reconnect with my values allowed me to reclaim my confidence, joy, and freedom.
Together, we'll uncover what has been keeping you disconnected from yourself and help you create a life aligned with who you truly are, your values, and your dreams.
Why are you stuck
Most people try to change their lives by working on behaviours, mindset, or coping strategies.
But the patterns that keep us stuck are rarely conscious.
They are often driven by unresolved emotional experiences, unconscious decisions, and internal conflicts that continue to shape how we think, feel, and act.
I coach people in identifying and resolving these deeper drivers, so change happens at the root, not at the surface.
This is where lasting transformation becomes possible.
How I Help You
I combine a scientific understanding of human behaviour with deep transformational methodologies including Create Your Future® Coaching, Time Line Therapy®, NLP, hypnosis, contemplative and energetic practices.
This allows us to work directly with unconscious patterns—helping release emotional blocks, shift limiting beliefs, and resolve internal conflicts at their source.
The result is not just insight, but real internal change that is felt in daily life and that will bring you back the freedom of conscious choice that is your birthright.
As these deeper patterns are resolved, clients describe feeling:
whole
free
unstoppable
that they finally embody who they really are
in charge of their own life and reactions
empowered
as if born again
that everything is possible
It becomes easier to trust yourself, act differently, and reconnect with parts of yourself that were previously hidden or suppressed.
This is not about becoming someone new. It’s about returning to who you were before the patterns took over.
I help you interrupt what is running your life so you can finally choose how to live it.
If this resonates with you, we can begin with a conversation to explore what’s really keeping you stuck and whether this work is right for you.
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The sacred space where healing begins
The Sanskrit word “Shunya” means void or emptiness—a sacred space of stillness and potential. In meditation, it is the state we aspire to: the quiet emptiness that gives meaning to fullness. Just as the space between walls forms a home, the silence between notes creates a symphony, and the hollow wick allows a flame to burn, Shunya is the inner space that allows the real Self within us to rise and shine.
I created Shunya Healing with the intention of guiding you towards your Shunya, where true transformation unfolds. By integrating science with timeless wisdom, my purpose is to help you create space to reconnect with your True Self and experience life with clarity, harmony, and wholeness.
My Services
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Do you keep repeating patterns you thought you had already outgrown?
Whether it’s anxiety, self-sabotage, unhealthy habits, relationship struggles, burnout or feeling stuck, the problem is not a lack of willpower, but deeper unconscious patterns that continue to drive your choices.
I help you uncover and resolve those patterns so you can finally reclaim the freedom to be who you are. -
Whether in person or from a distance, energy healing channels universal love to support your body, mind, and spirit. Reiki and crystal energies help release stress, balance emotions, and restore harmony.
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Meditation is an ancient practice of returning to yourself — to that quiet inner space where healing unfolds naturally. It helps release stress, restore balance, and nurture clarity. Beyond relaxation, meditation can guide deep transformation by dissolving emotional wounds and reprogramming limiting patterns. I offer personalized teachings and guided meditations — from mindfulness practices to energetic journeys like chord cutting — to support your unique path toward healing and self-discovery.
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The Akashic space is a plane of high-vibrational energy filled with universal love, compassion, and forgiveness. The wisdom it holds can guide profound emotional healing and the release of limiting patterns.
Guided meditations
Whether you want to simply relax and reconnect with your body, or gently release old patterns and limiting beliefs, there is a meditation designed for your unique journey.
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